So as of now Alicia and I have celebrated more anniversaries in Africa than at home. On June 23'rd we had our 3 year. We went to a world cup game that night. It was incredible. The atmosphere, stadium, crowds and the bus rides. It was Australia vs Serbia and turned out to be a great game, 2:1 for Aussie. We have been spending a lot of time watching the other games on TV with people and it has been a great chance to bond.
We recently found out my parents have booked tickets to come out to South Africa for the end of September and we are extrememly excited. Now we're busy planning what we want to do while they're here.
I can't believe we have been here for 2 months. The time flies here and I get glimpses of how fast this year is going to go. I try to take my time and really take in the experience, so it's not something that just hits me on the plane ride home. The quietness of where we are really has a way of slowing you down. At first coming from the west it feels isolating and boring at times. Then you come to love and cherish the quietness. A chance to reflect. It makes me scared to go back home. To fall into the same old routines again. Life is short and that's why I should be acknolweding the experience right infront of me. Taking time so slow down my pace. The Western world is result driven and here in Africa it's relationship driven. There has to be a way to find a happy medium if nothing else.
Africa has changed me, and I see that can make some people uncomfortable, but I can't deny it. I have new role models, new ideas and a new perspective. I've been challenged. I feel more like who I was meant to be and what I was meant to be doing. If it feels more fitting it must be the right direction, right? I love what is happening and embrace it. While those on the surface might not notice the change, I feel it deep inside. It's true when people say we could be doing volunteer work anywhere, and I'm sure I will carry on back home, but I love Africa. I feel a huge debt to Africa, Hands at Work, friends, family and my amazing wife. It isn't easy to pick up and move across the world, but the support of everyone makes it possible. Thank you, we love and miss everyone at home.
-T
7 comments:
Tyler, sounds like you are becoming very 'mindful', that is great to hear. Very few people live in the moment, and miss out on what is happening right now. Enjoy every minute while you're there, I can tell that you really love it and feel a real connection to the people and lifestyle. I'm wondering if you guys will ever go back to Victoria. I could see you staying there long term. Also, are you using the same email? Let me know if you are or are not. Great to get an update! Sjoukje, King and I are thinking about and praying for you guys all the time.
s
I couldn't have said it any better...thank you for being a beautiful voice for both of us Tyler. I love you.
-a
This new world we live in has so much to learn from the old world. It's not easy to live in the moment in the society we live in but it can be done.
All the best,
Alicia
Tyler.....I KNOW you are changing, I SEE you are changing and I FEEL in my heart of hearts that you are changing. You are becoming the person God has created you to be. This process is the most amazing thing to happen in anyone's life. There will be no turning back. Your place, right now, is in Africa. The fulfillment you feel is there because you are where you are supposed to be.
All our love to you both.
Mom & Dad
We love you so much Tyler and are so excited about the transformation that is happening in your life. You rock brother!
P.S. can't believe you went to a World Cup game and didn't invite me!
Tyler your message brought me to tears! What the two of you are doing your world in Africa always puts things in perspective for me and the rest of us at home. Life just goes by so quickly, so please just soak up the whole experience...for all of us! I am thinking and praying for you two always, please keep writing, it is so nice to hear from you.
SO exciting about the world cup game, one question though, why do those horns have to be on all the time, it is so annoying on TV sounds like bees buzzing around...
Love Tessa
Tyler & Alicia,
Found your blog on Facebook and so glad I did. This post moved me to tears as I remembered sharing those exact feelings during my time there. Soak in every moment and continue allowing yourselves to be changed! So well put, Tyler.
Katie Harvey
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